Even if you are not supposed to enter a blind date with bad expectations in mind, you should keep an eye out of some warning signs that your date would not be a good partner.
Your date wears a wedding ring – Even if your date claims that he or she is divorced or widowed, it is best to be a little doubtful about it.
Your date talks about past failed relationships – This is an indication that your date is not open to entering a new relationship or is anticipating for another bad relationship (and would talk to his or her next date about your relationship).
Your date speaks badly about his mother or exes – This especially applies to men who tend to bad-mouth about other women, especially their mothers or ex-girlfriends. If he ever does this, it means that he would most likely disrespect you as well.
Your date does not offer to pay – Although men are dictated by etiquette to pay for the first date, the women should at least offer to pay for their share of the meal.
Your date is directly rude at you – Once you notice that your date is either rude or even making fun at you, do not tolerate the this bad behavior and end your date as soon as possible.
Your date is rude towards waiters – This is a good indicator on how your date treats other people, including you (even if he appears to be nice towards you).
Your date drinks a lot – If your date is drinking excessively during your first date, it is most likely that he or she would do it more often and could even destroy your relationship.
Your date does not pay attention to you – It simply means that your date is uninterested. If you feel that there is no connection or chemistry between the two of you, end the date as soon as possible.
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